Tuesday, February 24, 2015

The power of shared body knowledge

So, the Orlnado mixer was amazing, was almost a spiritual experience!

I love to party, don't get me wrong...but it usually involves barefoot dancing at house parties or goofy bust-outs at dive bars. But I was dreading the mixer, as I assumed it would be a competitive scene, filled with providers who wore way more make-up than me, who stood so much taller than me, and who could rock the highest of heels. I knew I would be the only girl with a disability. And how was I supposed to pull off the Buttons Berry ta-da in that environment? bB charm is based on colorful, but understated erotic energy, usually a one-on-one situation--which seems understated until you get close to it and it enfolds you with wild flow!

Anyway, none of my fears came to be. The women were all beautiful souls. I felt so nurtured, so lifted up, so re-commited to my passion for erotic work. I felt that I could speak freely and simply be myself, with these sisters.

This, I think, comes from shared body knowledge. I have many long-standing groups of friends in my life, people from the arts and the social justice communities. but in some ways, i felt more alive and more snug in the escort community, even though I was just meeting most of these women for the first time.

Why? Because the connection was beyond the external look, it was beyond shared political or aesthetic language, it was beyond shared concepts. iIt was based in our experience of our bodies as empowered. The connection did not need to be hashed out through words as it came from our shared body experience of being woman so in love with sexuality, with eros--eing women who love to bring that to others.

So guys, come help me ride me wave of new-found belonging--a renewed lust for creative, delicate, powerful physical connection.


Oh yes, and of course, the pleasure of filling the mousse cups was given to me! The party was oh-so decadent!


Fins out about upcoming mixers by following the organizers on twitter. https://twitter.com/SunSensuality Gents, you won;t be disappointed The Sun and Sensuality collective is the warmest, most welcoming beauties you will find.


Wednesday, February 18, 2015

Off to Orlando to party with lovely elite companions from across the South!



It is too late to RSVP for this discrete mixer, but you should join me for a nightcap and an erotic art session. Either tomorrow night, Thursday, or Friday morning. Don't miss me gents, I won't be back in Orlando any time soon!

Sunday, February 8, 2015

Time to party in Orlando with the Berry and many other lovely ladies. RSVP befor Feb. 16!

 Dear ladies of the night and other ladies and gents--my companions Softly Sarah and Makenzie Rae are so generously putting on this Orlando mixer. I think this isa fabulous opportunity for those of you who dread the drive to St. Petersburg to see lil' ole me, or for those of you who aren't quite sure if buttons berry is your speed. Am I too quirky, too tiny...or juuust right? Well, you can come to this soiree and find out. if we are not a match, no harm done...there will be plenty other dlectables there for you to choose from!

Decide fast, as you only have till Feb. 16 to RSVP and be screened. Read the invite from my friends below and email them (not me).

Oh, also...for my loyal clients...your attendance would be so appreicated. buttons Berry is a girl who didn't want to go to prom or her own high school graduation. She prefers getting fabulous on the back porch with blackberry juice and moonshine. So, she's a bit nervous about this shindig and would be Thrilled to see a sweet, fmaialir face there. And then, you can meet her friends!


Do I really have to find a cocktail dress? Can I just wear this?



xoxoxox



 INVITE to Feb. 19 Orlando Meet and Greet

Are you ready? Do you have your invitation? Have you RSVP'd for the most amazing party in February in Central Florida?

 Please email any questions or your information to orlandomandg@yahoo.com. Thanks!
 
Ladies and gentlemen, “February is for Lovers!” is going to be one fabulous event. It's not too late to register to get your invitation, but hurry! Time is running out, and some hotels are already sold out. And the ladies' dance cards are filling up fast!

The response to our sexy soiree has been fantastic so far, and we are looking forward to an entertaining and lively evening with fine ladies and gentlemen from all over the United States.

February Is For Lovers!

February 19th, 2015, 6:30PM to 10:30PM
Greater Orlando Area (exact location to be given only to those with a formal invitation)
Gents: $100 at the door
Ladies: Your lovely and gracious presence is compensation enough!
Cocktail Attire is Requested

We are currently seeking a bartender. If you can do this, you will receive a special incentive to share your talents with us! :)

Gia Moore will grace us with her beautiful presence to promote her lovely new fragrance line, "G"! One lucky person will receive a free bottle in a raffle! And we have some other fun door prizes and games!

Don't miss out on this fabulous festivity. Reserve your space now!

To be included, please send the following information to us at orlandomandg@yahoo.com:

Gentlemen:
• Username and website
• Real first  name
• Email address
• Cell number (this # will not be called-its only for reference the day of the event)
• 2 references from well known/reputable ladies. Please include a link to each lady’s website,
  her email address and or a telephone number. You are welcome (and perhaps advised) to contact
  the ladies and inform them that we will be in touch with them.  
• For fun: Please include one interesting and unique piece of information about yourself that is unusual and not easily guessed, but that you're willing to share with other guests. For instance, that you are an expert at making souffl├ęs, or that you can balance an umbrella on your nose. And please keep this secret for now. ;)

We can't wait to see you there!

With warm anticipation,

Makenzie Rae and Softly Sarah
 

Sunday, January 18, 2015

I adored Bettie Page Reveals All

I started watching this documentary thinking that the whole Bettie Page thing was overplayed. She reminded me of too many rockabilly ex-boyfriends and too many girls who throw an obsessive amount of time into looking exactly like a 50's pin-up--an endeavor I find admirable, but also, mis-spent, in terms of movable, touchable sensual energy.

But the film was so well-told! A great deal of it was narrated in Bettie's rich Southern voice, from interviews done with her after she turned up in Florida, decades after her photos defined Americana eros.

"Bettie Page is revolutionary. The symbol of joyous, sexual freedom." It's true, I realize now. To me, it is not so much how her body looks, but what her face conveys when she poses. The impossible sexiness of well-rounded happiness, of delight....


I am ready to re-watch it! Want to join me?

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

Happy New Year, my tidbits!

I hope you had cozy and relatively non-stressful holidays. I got so tired from entertaining family over Christmas, that I was down with the flu for some days, but then i magically rallied at 10pm New Year's Eve and thanks to magic dust, a blanket and a kindly entourage of friends, I ended up dancing barefoot on Central Ave in my leopard-striped fishies. I petted a lovely couple, they were wearing boas and next thing I know, they were wrapping me in their glittery feather.s, sending me off with the gift of fluff. Eventually, the friends and I traipsed home and fell asleep, disrobed, in a pile, as the sun was rising. on the bay.

The new year feels quite blank and open. Like, how will I ever finish writing my book? Who will I meet in Arizona? What is to be made of the silvery airstream trailer, that reads Unlocking Awareness: Portable Labyrinths. iI has been parked front of my place for days?  I watched Von Thiers "Nymphomaniac" when I was sick and found it to be self-punishing crap. Sensual awakening is nt about hard drive. It is about nuance and learning to play and be open again. I am in love with my body. Things can be gentler, less serious, more real...How accidental it is that any of us is alive? We can all be doorways for each other. xoxoxoxox

Contemplating the layout of new erotic art collages.



 A fur vest I got for Christmas makes me much of the creature!


Toro!

 Deciding to cloud bathe.




Sunday, December 14, 2014

the right to have winter with fruit on the bottom

The title of a failed poem I wrote under grey San Francisco skies. In Florida winter, the light is cut like quartz, freed from the heaviness of its summer heat. It is still sultry though...an elegant, floaty warmth. Come dream into that exquisite arch with me.

HOLIDAY SPECIAL through Dec. 31 2014. Call to find out!