gifted me with some ephemera from his French collection!
Such a sweet surprise!
I am amazingly turnt up, in a gentle mindful hot way, after my Buddhist poetics sex weekend in Boulder. Call me, FL. sweets! I will lather you adjectives and transformative intentions.
Oh, and I had the honor--in a crazy, unrelated related way-- of receiving a call from international workshop leader and author Barbara Carralles. The Urban Tantra community is literally calling my name.
I have been locked out of my Facebook, and I am sad to say goodbye
to 1500 fans--maybe many of you read this blog. But, as one recent arts
patron (an adorable techie who stands shorter than 5 ft) explained to
me--Facebook has the rights to all your intellectual property, (I feel
like I should have realized this before). Twitter seems like a much
better use of my time. Not just to keep in touch with my erotic art
friends and fans and patrons, but also to talk with other professionals,
artists and advocates for people in the erotic arts/adult entertianment
and I hope you understand that if you follow me on Twitter, you are
more apt to see me getting involved in social justice discussions around
adult industry/sex worker rights. Please understand, I am for client's
In other news, best comment made to me at a bar, of late:
scene: An awesome Johhny Cash covers duo, father and son. They are
old-timey Florida guys, each with white hair, and a drawl. The elder,
the dad, looks up at me, from where he is kneeeling over his guitar case
"Do you watch Orange Is the New Black?"
This is not what I expected to come outta this guy's mouth, so I just stare at him and smile for a minute.
He continues, "Whelp, cuz you look like that one inmate, the Italian one, she's real sweet and real cray--stalks her man."
laugh, thank him and return to my table. His son ambles over, leans
down to me and says, "Sorry about my dad, he has not been the same since
The ladies I am with, librarian and sci-fi
-writer types, immediately start Google image searching the character
from that show and giggling.
This is actually one of
the best dive bar comments I've had in a while. far better than, "Have
you ever done it with a midget?' and "Are you a witch?" (the latter in
reference to my David Bowie eye).
Here's some pix in the
mix. They have absolutely nothing to do with what I just blogged about
and I will not pull a goofy hook to pretend they do. Though this is to
say, this is not xxx "pink". It is live coral!
I got to chat on the phone with Maggie McNeil today! Maggie is a retired courtesan with s blog followed by thousands. She writes about issues of the industry and makes a clear case for justice, beyond the law. She is now the author of